More Fun, More Sex

"Ultimately, fun is the best aphrodisiac," says Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On! "Quit looking for sexy and look for fun instead—and you'll end up having more sex."

Who doesn't love fun? And if it leads to a little something more, all the better! Here are some ideas for activities to get the fun started...

Survey Says...

Does a relationship have a better chance of working if the woman is more attractive than the man? A recent study suggests it does.

In an attempt to determine whether good-looking spouses aremore supportive and happier, a team of psychologists studied 82 newlywed couples.

Their research findings:

- Men who were more attractive than their spouses were less supportive than men who were equally matched or less attractive.
- Men who were more attractive were less happy than others.
- Men and women tended to be more positive and happier when wives were more attractive than their husbands.

The researchers suggest that human evolution might help explain the effect of men's attractiveness on a marriage.

- Attractive men are more likely to attract women, which could make them less satisfied and less committed.
- Attractive women might not mind being better-looking because attractiveness might be less important long-term.

Whatever the reason, makes you think...

Make Out More

Take a trip back to junior high for an evening and restrict yourselves to 10 minutes of kissing and over-the-clothes touching only, says Leigh Anderson, author of Games for Grownups. “

Keeping things PG for a set time revs you both up for a more adult encounter.

Better At Yoga, Better In Bed

It's said that the Goddess Pose can help improve your sex life by strengthening your legs and opening your hips.

Learn how to do the Goddess pose here and see if they're right.

Flex Your Love Muscles

According to this study, the top five muscles women love on a man are:

1. Six-pack abs
2. Powerful forearms
3. A nice butt
4. A broad back
5. Sculpted shoulders

Be Lovers, Not Fighters...

According to a study conducted at the University of California at Berkeley, couples who lightly tease each other during a conflict (read: fight) wind up feeling more in love when the disagreement finally blows over.

Something as little as using funny nicknames for each other or making a self-deprecating joke does the trick. So ditch the negative remarks and flex your funny bone instead.

Write It Down

Write your partners a little love note—with an actual pen and paper.

Studies show people who record positive feelings about their partner are more satisfied with their relationships.